For the last few years I’ve been listening to dating podcasts, I often hear women describe men in their previous dating relationships as being narcissistic or egotistical. Although I’m not too familiar with calling anyone narcissistic or egotistical, I recently was in a relationship with a woman who I believe…
The Gender War Needs to End. Now.
There is a gender war going on in America. It’s no denying it. Almost every single day I am bombarded by news, social media posts, and podcasts by men and women who are spreading hate and/or unwarranted unjust criticism towards the opposite sex. I understand there is no avoiding conversations…
Thoughts About Marriage
The hottest topics of conversation are about relationships, dating, love, and marriage. Especially around the holidays. As a single man looking for my wife I think of these topics probably every day. As a Christian, I believe God instituted marriage when He established a covenant relationship between Adam and Eve….
Dating: Reality vs. Fantasy
I recently had a few interesting conversations with various women about how dating has been going for them. We all know dating can be so difficult for single professional adults right now. Nevertheless, I believe there is hope if we begin to be honest with ourselves and others while also…
A War of Faith and Legitimacy: Jews and Muslims
Last week on October 7, 2023 militant Palestinians, led bay a group called Hamas (an Islamic Resistance military organization), fired rockets attacking the nation of Israel killing many Israeli citizens and soldiers. After recently speaking with coworkers about the war earlier this week, I realized a lot of people are…
The Reason Why Christians Want Life Partners
I received a revelation earlier this week after watching the Dear Future Wifey podcast, where it featured Derrick Jaxn giving an interview on his past relationship with his ex-wife Da’Naia Jackson. Hearing his transparent account of his poor decision-making and lack of leadership gave me a better understanding of why…
Sleepless Nights
Yesterday, I woke up in the middle of the night after having a crazy dream. I believe my spirit was a little moved because of an intimate conversation I had with a friend before I went to bed. Maybe. Maybe not. I don’t know. Nevertheless, there I was, in my…
Identifying and Breaking Generational Curses
A few days ago I felt the need to express something in my spirit. I initially put it off. However, after listening to a podcast a Facebook friend sent me earlier today, I feel the need to self-reflect. The podcast she shared with me was like a personal life documentary….
Colorism: Prejudice Inside The Black Community
Today I want to write about something that rarely gets talked about. Some refer to it as colorism within the black community. I look at it as another form of racism. The reason I wanted to write about this topic is to bring attention to the truth/reality which exists within…
Dreams of My Father
Last night, I had a nightmare. I dreamt my father was trying to kill me. The dream was so vivid. My heart was racing a little when I opened my eyes, and I couldn’t go back to sleep. I suppose my thoughts were waging war in my mind, unbeknownst to…